Proper Toy at the Proper Time
Remember when I noted earlier that you never use a vibrating or battery operated toy unless you are with a partner? It is true.
Do not train yourself to orgasm by vibrating with battery operated mechanisms.
First, this technique stops you from teaching your muscles to do the work. Which is where the fun is anyway.
Second, battery operated objects do not produce the best orgasms.
An egg or bullet inside you or a battery operated toy on your clitoris while a solid object is inside you will make things more enjoyable… When used sparingly!
There are times when you don’t want some mechanical piece of junk messing up a love-making experience so do not use mechanical toys in training. They are an accessory not a staple.
Ben-wa balls were the vaginal training tools of our ancestors. You would put them inside you and move them around with your own muscles. They Are pretty cool.
Ben-wa balls up inside you while you sit on a Sybian or Harley Davidson can be quite a treat. (Don’t fall off the back of the Harley!)
Ben-wa balls are usually made of metal and have some unique inlaid designs on them. They come in various weights and sizes. Amazon sells them… But as a starter… There are better options.
Most vibrators and dildos are made of some form of plastic or new fangled “safe latex”, “medical grade silicone” or other skin-like material.
You know what I’ve said about non-natural materials… do not use this stuff.
Ok… I do say use condoms. Especially with people and if someone brings you a toy that is not still in the package. (At a party or your new significant other wants to use this thing they just pulled out of the secret hiding space in their closet… who knows where that thing has been or if roaches or rats have peed on it.)
Tupperware as the example…
When a person buys Tupperware the product is initially very rigid. Over time it gets softer and less rigid.
Check in your kitchen cupboard and feel the rigidity of the various plastic containers… gauge the difference between the older ones versus newer ones of the same brand.
Plastic breaks down. Especially when heated!
Guess what happens to those plastic molecules in a food container… those molecules end up in your food.
Guess what happens to a plastic toy you stick in you… it breaks down over time.
The plastic stinks and you will stink, too.
Even the “medical grade silicone” toys I have used… had the silicone sluffing off at some point. (For instance… the veins on a life-like male member were rubbed off by use. Pits were left in the material.)
If you use medical grade silicone toys expect to throw them out about every 3 months.
Wash them ten times before you use them. Get the slick package crap off before using a toy the first time. Never just take it out of the package and stick it in you.
Any pits in the silicone will harbor microscopic bacteria.
I can give you a disadvantage for every material that is not natural.
Bare, unpolished Wood will give you splinters… but hopefully you are smarter than to put anything rough inside you.
My favorite toys are glass. The drawbacks to glass are rigidity and possible shattering… but if you purchase good quality, solid glass insert-able objects and don’t use them as darts… I have never had one break.
All training toys should have a handle at the base. You will need this initially, as a way to control the toy.
When you choose a regular use toy… get ones with flat bases that can stand on their own. Choose one from that company I mentioned in the first couple of letters. The one that makes second-to-none glass!
Flat, wide bases are easier to keep from getting pushed too far inside you (the base keeps them from going in) and if you need to put a suction cup on it for use in the bathtub… ya can.
Part two… How to pick the correct training toy to train your box for best results… Continued in next post.
Thanks for the great ideas! I'd like to send you a gift, too.