Thank you for
joining me on this giggle-fest journey behind the scenes and between the sheets
to discover the magical world of taboo behavior. As a teenager, there wasn’t a
lot of sound advice coming in my direction for what could or would happen down some
of the dark paths I took. I just knew
the DANGER sign at the beginning of the craggy path littered with sparkles and
shiny trinkets was a welcoming beacon to undiscovered territory and orgasmic
has a beginning. As such, I am going to
throw a whole bunch of things at you that are not on your radar or a whole lot
of other people’s radar.
If that special
“talk” you got didn’t include options to create multiple g-spots and multiple
orgasms, an index finger can touch an ovary from the inside, most skin to skin
contact sexually transmitted diseases can be washed off after sex, why alcohol
ruins a real female orgasm, why some male penises bend to the left, exercises
to reduce or eliminate prolapse, is bigger really better, how to get tight if
you are still wondering if it is in yet, knowing how to establish proper sexual
boundaries, how to properly communicate with your partner, why women and men
don’t begin to have the best orgasms of their lives until they are about thirty
years old (yep) or the tell-tale signs to spot a bad lay from across the room…
When you were
two, I bet you knew what a car was, you had probably seen a bicycle or even a
tricycle but that Big Wheel in front of you was the item to master first. Sex is no different! You were born with all the parts but you
can’t use them properly until you learn how.
This book is
dedicated to teaching you HOW.
Follow some of
the choice mistakes I encountered and how I got around or out of a few of the
wrecks when I used the keys to my brand new Ferrari without knowing how to ride
a bicycle first. I was given the usual
puritanical instructions under the guise of you will fall in love, get married
and on your wedding night have the most amazing virgin sex Never known to mankind.
Translated to: you are going to go SPLAT! Oh, not following the arcane program? Well, in case you are having pre-marital sex,
here’s the number to a counselor if you think you got pregnant or a sti/std
during that massively disappointing 30 second love fest and don’t forget to use
a condom… next time.
Cripes! With that kind of advice, it is no wonder why
people turn to porn for education. At
least their train wreck looks like fun.
Psssst… it’s an act. It’s all
fake. Follow me through the pages and
get the goods the behind-the-green-door cottage industry hides from the
public. If you are a gifted child,
creative curious teenager, a twenty in search of a better sex life, a thirty
getting ready to actually find the right one or a forty questioning it all… oh,
let’s go visit some places you probably don’t want to go so you can make
better, more educated choices.
You can thank
me by sharing what you learn with others.
Get ready to put on your Super Cape and let’s confine ignorant education
leading to poor sexual performance and diseases where they belong… back in the
Stone Age. Enjoy the Letters To Jamison.
Promiscuity, in the 80s during the find patient zero aspect of the AIDS epidemic, was defined as 11 partners in one year. Statistically speaking, I’m guessing 8 dates a week in college pretty much defies logic when it comes to how I came through that time period relatively unscathed.
There are a lot of current (2019) commercials targeting LGBTQ about getting on a daily multiple prescription drug regimen to keep from getting HIV. Reading the possible side effects in the fine print, I’m sure you noticed the big section on kidney failure. One other interesting factoid about the regimen…part of it is also a treatment for hepatitis B.
Adding to my list of possible reasons why having unprotected sex with HIV/AIDS infected people did not result in my receipt of the disease, I would hope if individuals of high risk entertain risky behavior they add what they can from these practices to their protectionism mechanisms.
• I did not allow male semen inside me. The flagella (sperm) naturally chew holes in cell walls in order to fertilize an egg. • I didn’t kiss or swap spit with people I was not in a monogamous relationship with. • I bathed immediately after sex. • I had an internal vaginal flushing mechanism called a female orgasm. (The fluid of which is usually around a 7.3 pH or higher. Same pH strip that they use to check whether or not a pregnant woman’s water broke.) • I drank oxygenated water with a pH of 7.0 or greater. • I ate non-GMO food. • I regularly went skydiving and received a higher quantity of protons than the earthbound electron imbuing cell phone wearing group.
I was skydiving before proton therapy became a staple cancer treatment but after Louise L Hay taught me positive attitude and holistic medicine existed long before modern medicine.
Has anyone else gotten a curiosity bug when looking at the history of HIV and AIDS versus the current epidemic? In the 80s, the powers publicly announced the decade would not end without cure availability. What happened?
Looking for correlating answers to the posted question above, the deeper I searched, the less sense the purported 80s story line made.
A thorough read of today’s internet material says the disease was present in monkeys in 1920s Africa and transferred to humans via bush meat. Recent research states these monkeys have been living with SIV for upwards of 32,000 years. All well and good but how did they survive the flash frozen younger dryas event that thawed out only about 12,000 years ago? Not related to sex and sex solutions, I guess that is a question for another post.
Agreed, HIV is a mutated virus with ape origins. Even though the proposed number of worldwide infections prior to 1980 was estimated at 300,000 with a rapid rate of spread capability, one might think wealthy American sport hunters or travelers having some “fun on holiday” might have been the first to bring HIV from Africa to America.
However, there is no documentation of such a logical occurrence.
A Haitian man who presumably worked the Congo bush then moved to New York ultimately becoming an intravenous heroine addict claims that prize.
Serum tested post mortem from New York’s Haitian man initiated “junkie pneumonia” victims had some staggering rates. 1975 below 20% 1978 1 in 11 1979 29% of 40 samples 1980 44% of samples 1982 52% of samples
Check the first “4H” box for 1970s New York needle sharing junkies, users numbered in the tens of thousands, which does not explain the California gay sex angle.
Odd spread statistics
Is it possible to believe that a lower percentage of people had sex between 1920 and 1980 thus accounting for the slow to non-existent mutation of HIV-1 and HIV-2 coupled with stable distribution capability at roughly (300,000 individuals/60 years = 5,000 individuals) on an annual basis?
While it supposedly raged in Africa and came to Haiti through employment, then into the world of shared needles, during the free love sixties and sexual revolution seventies, HIV found no traction as a sexual issue in America? Other than one molested, embarrassed and victimized, 16 year old boy in St. Louis, no American hippie culture type contracted the disease?
I would argue people were more promiscuous then with a lot less condom use than now, because sexually transmitted diseases were not lethal. Follow that logic for a minute.
Between 1981 and 1984 in America, 1 case became 249 and then close to 3000 cases with a roughly 50% mortality rate ballooned into around 250,000 cases with a dismal life expectancy.
By January 1986 the AIDS epidemic had infected over 1 million Americans.
Go backwards and none of this 1920-1980 math adds up when it is correlated to human sexual behavior.
If it only took less than 5 years to have 1 million infections, how could it take 60 prior years to have less than 300,000 cases?
Yet, today, the wildfire-like disease spreads at a rate of 5,000 new cases per day?
If we account for the rate of population change between 1980 and 2018, again, the math does not add up.
While the global population only doubled, the rate of HIV infection increased by a factor of 10.
Did the sexual habits of humans drastically change in 1980? Sure, we flew a lot more in the 80s than in the 20s but when Patient [letter] O from the airlines was crossed off the list after infecting only 40 people, there were a lot more questions than answers.
How AIDS went from nothing to worry about to pink buttons proudly worn in bars almost overnight lacked compassion and logical sense. At the time, most believed the prevailing attitude, still held from Hitler’s ethnic cleansing less than 40 years earlier, that someone had found a cure for gays and drug addicts. (That was the scary part of “not my problem” 80s greed culture.)
The official narrative is unique. In 1977 a female prostitute in San Francisco delivers a baby that later dies. The woman dies in 1987. Post mortem discovery was conducted in both cases to determine HIV strain presence. Nobody knows this when the evening news runs stories saying gay men are dying.
When the general population did hear about this new deadly sexual disease, not unlike the Tuskegee syphilis experiment, only “4H”, a specific targeted community, had an outbreak for this one specific variant of the HIV series. In 1981, the CDC credits Ken Horne as the actual patient zero. Clusters in the gay community of San Francisco, Los Angeles and New York almost simultaneously got the disease.
And suspiciously, no happy heartlanders contracted this rare disease where it was first reported. Nor were there reports in Miami, Hotlanta, Dallas or Chicago sites, only gay men in three cities on the east and west coast.
In 1983 the CDC already had a smoking gun. Which is great detective work. The CDC claimed there was no conspiracy. The dying men said there was.
If a person didn’t think the disease was going to personally threaten them, then any narrative was acceptable. On the other hand, if this could directly affect the one in the mirror, finding out everything one could was extremely important.
Normally when researching the history of the AIDS narrative, one wouldn’t go looking for benignly related vaccine studies, unless one actually believed being both the maker of the bullets and Band-Aids provides a perpetual income stream. In America, if you want to find out what really happened, follow the money.
In 1973 a study was conducted in Uganda for children with Burkitt’s lymphoma. Wikipedia states, in 1985 retroactive testing showed 50/75 children had a disease closely related to HIV. Women were also dying of a close cousin of HIV, but not the one that bombed the American gay men’s scene.
Scientific consensus rules out any sort of stereotypical hate behavior in favor of genetic mutation. A mutation they still cannot explain in any peer review paper I read. If there is a scientific consensus, there is a paper. No consensus, no publish. In the publish or perish world, everybody wants to be first to publish!
In the paper by V. Harinda, HIV: Past, present and future (Indian J Sex Transmission 2008; Vol.29, No.1), No test has been able to conclusively prove how the virus mutated from SIV into a human HIV disease naturally. However, under the heading of conspiracy theory, “Some people believe that the virus was spread… to gay men through hepatitis b vaccine trials.”
According to Colin W. Shepard et al. in Hepatitis B Virus Infection: Epidemiology and Vaccination (Epidemiological Reviews, Volume 28, Issue 1, August 2006), “First licensed in the United States in 1981, hepatitis B vaccine is now one of the most widely used vaccines in the world…” Additionally, “…the world’s first cancer prevention vaccine and the first vaccine to prevent a sexually transmitted disease.”
Humans are the only known natural HBV host. Scientists have a complete DNA understanding of the virus. I won’t bore you with the jargon however, It is scary how unrelated scientific papers describe HIV and HBV transmission almost like identical twins.
Based on the demographic of the majority of the initial recipients of HIV/AIDS, it is completely understandable how this was viewed as a targeted eugenics project by everyone looking at these statistics. An HBV trial was administered to the subset populations in the three locations where GRID first bloomed.
It doesn’t actually matter who or what started it. What matters is stopping it because what is touted to stop the speed of new daily infections is not stopping the spread of the disease!
Lots of people wanted to get tested. The big problem was that nobody would administer the test until the 6 month incubation period after sex had expired. This created MAYHEM! Many people, like myself, adopted a program of keeping a list of partners and getting tested every six months.
Between 1984 and 1987, research funding was made available because women, children and movie stars could get AIDS.
To squelch heterosexual public fear, an available cure was expected within two years. Those of us who knew a cure would never come, took it upon ourselves to find out how to protect ourselves while continuing to live the scene.
They say cases of rare pneumonia and cancer triggered the detection of HIV.
Knowing cancer and pneumonia are both diseases that are triggered by low body pH and science has repeatedly proven neither disease can survive in a pH environment above 7.0, I decided to do a little 1980s peer review research journal crawl.
Many researchers looked at the correlation between pH and HIV transmission.
I stumbled across the most interesting paper attempting to prove that pH is not a factor in HIV. To an untrained individual, this might pass muster. To everyone else who passed 8th grade biology or chemistry, pH regulates chemical availability and thus cellular function.
When growing plants we know that soil pH must be correct for nutrient uptake in order to flower or grow food. Human bodies are designed to operate optimally with a pH around 7.0.
Blood has a pH ranging from 7.6 to 7.2 whether a vein or artery (Bohr effect). The higher range reflects more oxygen thus allowing for the body to process sugars and create healthy cells.
Here is the quick, short summary of the published research from the 1980s papers I examined.
At a pH of 5.0 nothing HIV related replicates. Ta-daaa! Cure.
However, cancer and pneumonia go Gang Busters in the pH 5.5-6.6 categories. Not a cure.
At a pH of 7.6, the upper limit of what any paper disclosed, there was still viable mutation. How much? Who knows?
Of interesting note, if a weak solution of NH4CL was introduced within the first 18 hours, a 95% rate of unsuccessful cultivation occurred.
That translates to a Potential 95% reduction in getting HIV if applied within 18 hours of sex.
Ammonium chloride can be found in cough medicine, fireworks, food additives, shampoo, cleaning products and textile printing. In a not too stunning surprise, this method of reducing the likelihood of spreading the HIV infection never made it to market.
The first protease inhibitor to successfully delay disease progression in AIDS patients changed pH levels. Protease inhibitors are employed to “affect physiological processes.” Mice studied were cited to have a pH increase to 8.5.
Another useful factoid of merit is circumcised males are less likely (65%) to contract HIV through heterosexual sex than their foreskin retaining counterparts.
Microbicides dropped pH levels and failed to achieve the anticipated results.
But no cure was ever published. Not even for those that could afford it.
And now a possible solution to the dilemma. Based on my lifestyle choices, adding oxygenated water might be a huge part of the solution. Why? Because the human body is roughly 68% water, a bag of mush and electrical impulses. Water is the filter. The pH and oxygen content of your filter controls everything including the oxygenation of your blood cells and ability to fight disease.
A pH of 8.0 is not dangerous to the human body as there are oxygen water products that are sold with this pH at health food stores. Water at a pH of 8.0 is extremely healthy. So are oxygen bars also called oxygen cafes where one can breathe pure O2. The Las Vegas airport has an O2 bar. Some portable O2 units normally used by elderly patients provide a decent option for non-exploding oxygen tanks. The King of Pop slept in an O2 chamber. Oxygen kills anaerobic organisms. It turns facultative anaerobes into aerobes. It binds heavy metals. Oxygen can do amazing positives.
I would ask that if dollars are being spent on education to deter the disease, spend a couple thousand on a triple replicated study. Needed tools will include: a high school biology lab containing microscopes, camera attachments to snap photos of the slides, slides, cover slips, Petrie dishes, pH strips, auger, safety gear, HIV cells from a willing person able to donate a few drops of infected blood, and probably some willing Biology club scientists-in-training interested to perform this triple replicated study designed for peer review and publication.
Culture the HIV cells in the substrate. According to research papers, this occurs within one hour. Increase the pH in increments from 7.4 to 8.6 to see when the disease fails to spread.
I’d make a Vegas betting line at 7.8 pH.
If my theory that HIV does not transmit at a pH above 7.6 and replicated scientific proof can substantiate the anecdotal explanation for my lifestyle, then a small lifestyle change to emulate the protective measures I employ including douching the orifice immediately after intercourse with oxygenated water and drinking oxygenated water might be all that’s needed to eliminate the spread of the disease.
If that doesn’t work, science has known since the mid 80s a weak solution of NH4CL immediately after intercourse will reduce the risk of infection by 95%.
After replicating the proof three times, spend the rest of your budget getting the good word out!
The slave mentality I know board members of pharmaceutical companies. They don’t bring new drugs on the market unless those drugs are profitable. Now that an estimated 70 million people and counting have contracted HIV with about 36 million still alive, a couple million people taking a daily regimen of pharmaceuticals is profitable.
Much like cancer, as long as we never cure the disease while gaining a new influx of contaminated individuals on a daily basis, the mutating HIV virus strains will always need new development profit centered drugs.
If high school kids, those most endangered by the disease, would accept responsibility to find possible cures or at least attempt the science experiments to see what levels of O2 implementation could work, then they might be afforded a simple luxury: what it’s like to have sex without wondering if it might kill them.
Our slave-owning, freedom-wanting founding fathers said it best, “Those who do not fight for freedom do not deserve it.”
Bottom line. If you want a cure, you need to find it. There is too much profit in not stopping this infection.
Do you know how to tell when you are not with the right person? I will cut to the chase and answer this one for you.
A relationship is OVER the first time you look at someone else and wonder what it would be like to be with that other person instead of the one you are with.
Something about your current relationship is not meeting all of your needs.
Modern society has all sorts of excuses for why you stay where you are and deal with the problem and in so doing you end up violating another major boundary… being honest with yourself.
The popular excuse is “I love this person so I’m going to work it out.”
This may stem from the concept that a divorce was almost impossible to obtain prior to the mid 1960s… It wasn’t socially acceptable until around 1980…
Riiiiight. Sure you love your partner. You love them like I love chocolate.
There are 8 different words to describe 8 different types of love in the Bible.
Unless you had that “hit-in-the-head-with-a-baseball-bat” type of love I discussed earlier… (2) things: (1) then the titillating feeling of finding a different partner is your inner knowing that the person you are with …isn’t the best match and (2) when you are really in love, the way it is meant to be, you don’t notice anyone but your partner.
People get into wrong relationships all the time and spend the rest of their life trying to make it work.
Who are they trying to please? It’s obviously not the unhappy person in the mirror.
Even a monkey in a laboratory quits trying to put a square peg in a round hole after a certain number of tries. It’s the job of the scientists behind the mirror evaluating the monkey to keep track of the number of tries attempted before the monkey realizes effort after foolishness does not pay off.
I do think some monkeys are smarter than people in certain situations. Take a gander at the bonobo monkey tribe. A matriarch dominant society that settles their differences using sex. It works, too.
What I want you to realize is that you are responsible for everything that happens in your life.
Technically the word means the ability to respond in a given situation.
I’ve noticed most people think they are responsible.
Even those adult individuals who have sex with toddlers, people who knowingly transmit deadly diseases, the banker who forecloses a house and kicks a family out on the street on Christmas Eve because they are late on the payment, the reporter who refused to do due diligence and parrots a lie, just a few examples of a terribly long list that includes you and me because even we Think we are responsible. Welcome to life… we all fall short of being responsible at some point.
I’m going to circle back to boundaries and communication. Without appropriate boundaries and communication skills to enforce those boundaries, we end up in less than stellar situations.
Often, we don’t even realize when our own behavior crosses one of our own espoused boundaries.
A perfect example.
The example of that guy ran a red light and hit me… you didn’t have to be in that place at that time.
You could have been somewhere else. I promise you that the small voice inside told you ahead of time to be aware of your surroundings.
Why weren’t you listening? Was the radio more important?
Did your thoughts taking you out of here and now get in the way of being present? Was there some drama from another experience playing in your head that kept you from listening to yourself?
It really doesn’t matter what the subject matter noun is… this is one of the critical life lessons every person needs to accept, understand and thus… be responsible.
There is no such thing as a no fault accident in life.
If you are not present, you are 100% at fault. If you are present you bear half the responsibility for not getting out of the way.
You bear 100% of the responsibility for not taking action to create the solution appropriate for your needs.
This requires communication skills. With yourself! … and with everyone else involved!
Adopt this now and your entire life will be better for it.
Fail to recognize this as a basic premise for life and you will just keep giving away your power. You will keep living in co-dependent relationship disasters and wondering where and when it “all went wrong” while you erroneously look for something or someone else to blame.
Go look in the mirror. Fix that!
You can only attract that which you are.
Healthy people have healthy relationships. Unhealthy people have unhealthy relationships.
Guess what… healthy people don’t get into relationships with unhealthy people. They stick with their own kind.
To have a healthy relationship, YOU must get healthy first!
If you can’t stand someone else’s bad behavior look and see what commensurate same rotten behavior you have.
Ok, your partner is a drunk and you are not. You are a nagging bitch. Quit pointing fingers. The problem is the same.
The outward problem appears different but the underlying cause is the exact same. You are both morbidly unhappy. The final outcome is the same.
Neither party wants to be around the other one when their inability to cope with the underlying issue results in ugly behavior.
You both have a behavior that needs less positive reinforcement and a life that needs a new skill set.
Circle back to boundaries and communication.
Life is about boundaries and communication.
Master these two items and life will be much more enjoyable.
The real answer is “I have no idea how many g-spots you have but I have 4 distinct pleasure centers inside me.”
I’ve been inside a lot of women and on top, below, beside, behind or in front of a lot of men.
The one guarantee is that no two are exactly alike.
Yes, it is a penis or vagina but they are shaped slightly differently.
The individual has unique quirks that set them off. What works with one may not have any affect on another.
As you look at men you will discover that some penises are straight, some curve, some bend left or right, up or down, etc. Have you ever wondered why?
Male babies are born with unbent, un-curved penises… so how did they develop these directional augmentations?
Ask the male to masturbate for you. You will have your answer.
Playing with yourself has a pattern.
The muscles of the sexual organs will conform to the repeated patterns they are encouraged to follow.
If he yanks it to the left… it’s gonna bend to the left.
If he spends his life tucking it in his pants a certain way, the penis will conform to that curve.
I am often appalled at the medical community’s ability to financially capitalize on a behavior that is completely normal and call it a condition that needs repair. I also get a bit mortified when the medical community attempts to hide or obfuscate vital information that would help an individual, but not be financially profitable.
Even the drug company website to help men with Peyronie’s disease says to take their drug while doing exercises to straighten a penis curved more than 30 degrees.
If a bent dick guy wants a straight dick… learn to tug from the opposite direction.
In my opinion, they don’t need a drug to make a dick weak so it can be tweaked. If someone has erectile dysfunction… their penis muscles are already weak.
Think of it this way… male ED is the same as a loose pussy.
It ain’t no fun… but there are exercises to whip that floppy flaccid mess into shape so you/they/he/she/it can enjoy what has been missing.
Incidentally, a bent penis can be very beneficial in certain positions… but that is another letter.
For my webby friends, likes and followers… Thank you! If you found this of value, please share with two friends. If you really got something of value, please click the link below to support healthy education. It is very appreciated. Continued in
I took the stance that it was acceptable to test the waters and have sex with people that I was interested in… but I changed the terms.
I decided the pool of available candidates should be culled from what was available to only what I found intriguing.
As a standard on my basic rules/hard limit list that has definitely kept me off the basic bitch list, I refused to have sex with men that I knew were married. Make this rule one of your core ground rules. It is a red line for me.
Why… For what it’s worth… I believe in love and marriage. I never want to be second best, The other woman, that thing on the side, where you go when you are not happy at home, alone during the holidays because he is with his family… you get the point.
Second fiddle is not cool and not where I ever want to be.
Be in relationships with healthy people who do not make you swim in their sewer.
Also… you may not believe in karma… but I have seen enough to know it is real. I would never want to be the one who had their soul mate stolen….
Which leads me to a whole “Ashley Madison” category… adults often act like children and when their children see their parent act this way… the kids think this behavior is acceptable.
If you are cheating… the person you share your roof with is NOT your soul mate.
The definition of a soul mate is one who completes you. You searching elsewhere to get “needs/wants fulfilled” is the antithesis of a complete relationship. Stop being weak.
To the parents… if you are not happy… get a divorce!
Get in healthy relationships. Show yourself and your kids what a healthy relationship is!
Staying together for money… a reason I have heard so many times it is ridiculously pathetic… just shows how miserable and shallow the two of you really are.
Not only would I hate to be your kid, being given those kinds of value systems, but whenever I met someone I liked who was married and willing to cheat… I knew for sure they would cheat on me sooner or later.
Why get in a relationship with that as what you see at the end of the tunnel? I’m worth more than that and Jamison… you are worth more than what a cheater has to offer, also.
I had a coach who once told me, “Second best is just first place for losers.”
That statement was not only appropriate for sports, it is apropos when it comes to great sex and relationships.
I never met that magical Disney Prince in the real world, so I learned how to make myself fabulous.
In an effort to help you avoid quick, boring or painful experiences while testing the sexual waters, avoid the mistakes that I made and learn how to click your own mouse.
Finding excitement on the road less travelled would put me on a path down a very deep and dark rabbit hole which I will talk about in a later letter.
But for now, just know the person responsible for your orgasm is you.
Let’s get to figuring out how to make yourself happy. You were born with body parts that you should know how to use.
I don’t think the learning your own body is a sin or dirty or any negative thing.
In fact, there are Zero references in the Bible saying masturbating is a sin.
The church made that up!!! Just like it made up indulgences… Making a payment to get into heaven.
There is no reference to mastubation as a sin in my Bible or Koran…both of which I have read cover to cover more than once. (Just for kicks… In the letters to the church at Corinth… It says there is only one winner in the race.)
(No matter how many times a lie is repeated… repeating a lie does not make it true!)
You learned how to use your ears to hear, your mouth to speak, your eyes to see, your feet to walk, your hands with which to grab.
Why not learn how to use all of you. I will support you in this decision from afar, if you want to find out what your Creator gave you as a gift… one that was meant to be used often and correctly.
Love you, C. Change
Whew! Lots to think about. Thanks for not going to work and choosing to educate me instead. I'd like to support your continued writing efforts.
I’m not sure if anyone has explained this yet… but, those little swimmers… male sperm… they can stay alive and swim around inside you for up to three days after sex.
The sperm dying inside you can make your pussy stink. (Not really “can”… it DOES!)
Congratulations! Someone left their genetic material inside you… it’s checking out your cracks and crevices and dying in there.
Your body has to figure out… do I absorb this or do I get rid of it?
Yep… it’s disgusting.
Usually, the pH of the guy’s ejaculate is different than what normally lives inside your love box.
If he spooged up your butt and there is even the slightest tear… The swimmers are programmed to explore the “unknown” and tear into soft tissue.
How do you think sperm fertilize an egg… Chews a hole in the egg wall to climb inside.
Yep… Super disgusting when you really think about it.
When his stuff doesn’t mesh with your junk… you will wish you didn’t know the miserable possibilities.
The dead swimmers can contribute to a host of problems… one of them being an abnormal pap smear.
Wanna guess how I know this… personal experience.
When I quit allowing cum on me or in me… almost all my problems that required a doctor visit… pretty much went away.
Why oh why didn’t someone tell me this in the beginning.
I was told “use a condom so you don’t get pregnant.”
Let’s be more honest… today one can go get a morning after pill so the pregnancy thing should be moot.
You use a condom so you don’t get your love box stinky and sick!
Get used to the concept of using a female condom. They are super cool.
I’m just brushing the surface here… for now… use condoms until both you and your partner have learned to control both of your orgasms.
For the male… he needs to spit all his junk on a towel or his t-shirt. I don’t care if he says, “It feels better to cum inside you.”
This is a statement you will hear.
Roll your eyes and tell them to screw off… and across something else that is not ON you or IN you.
Preferably in a place you do not have to clean up. Feel free to tell him to lick his drippings off your shoe if he can’t aim at something he can take with him.
When you learn how to control your orgasms… because you followed the instructions I will give you in these letters, you should be able to fluid orgasm from the vaginal walls enough to flush out anything that has gotten inside of you.
It is the best way to get clean on the inside. Besides, a good female orgasm releases a lot more fluid than the average douche container can hold.
I decided to publish these private letters to my estranged niece because I have no idea if her parents gave them to her. I want her to have the benefit of my knowledge. If she looks or behaves anything like I did when I was her age… somebody is going to use whatever tactics necessary to get their hand in her cookie jar.
Knowledge is more powerful than ignorance or peer pressure.
I came from an era where the best sexual advice for pre-teens and teenagers usually came in the form of one of the following statements:. Don’t do it. Abstain until marriage. Its supposed to hurt the first time. Just lay there and it will be over in a few minutes. If you do have sex… Use a condom. (Of course, the male is responsible for providing the condom.)
While honestly given… I found most of these statements to be lies, bs or utterly useless. Sex education in school did NOT teach me about the birds and the bees. Sex ed taught me the names of my private parts but I had no idea how to operate them properly.
Left to my own devices to discover the adult world of sexual gratification… I made more than a few mistakes that intelligent people should generally avoid.
However, if you want to believe that good sex is one person laying there and the other one doing the work… please move on. I don’t want to shatter your low expectations.
As a woman, (born with those parts), If you’ve been led to believe that getting drunk and having sex won’t ruin a real female orgasm… it is time to quit drinking the kool-aid… unless you never want to know what is possible. You stay in la-la land. This blog is for someone who wants to learn what their body should be able to do.
When I talk with other females, every woman wants to say that have had an orgasm. At my age, I can then ask if their orgasm produces as much fluid as when their water broke when they had their kid.
The answer is always no. Then I begin to explain that their orgasm… the regular one they say they are having, should release as much fluid as the amount of fluid that came out when their water broke.
Suddenly, there is a mutual understanding. They have NOT been having the great orgasm that they thought they were having… Oops! Truth bomb.
Oh… yeah! These Letters are designed to uncover that which has been hidden. The truth you should have always been told. The things that make life better. Some truths are uncomfortable… because they expose the lies you’ve been fed.
Personally, it took me a lot of hard knocks to find out the information here in. In fact, I’m going to go out on a limb and say the amount of mistakes involved to find the truth is probably why so few have this knowledge. I believe that human nature can either feed the jealous, cruel, evil wolf or the build-you-up and loving wolf. (One can’t have beautiful outcomes if they are ugly on the inside.)
I recognize that this information may help others even though it is specifically written for one person. There is probative information herein I wish someone would have given me at the age of 12. As often as I have seen commercials for Christmas sales, the goodies in these letters should have been repeatedly pounded into my brain.
To the parents of the world… if you really love your kids… like you say you do… give them better information about their future sex life than the crap you were fed.
To the 40 million teenagers in 2019… Don’t blame your parents if they have no idea what I’m expounding upon in these pages… they were fed a crock of lies and never went the distance to get better knowledge.
You are all lucky you landed here. While you may look over the Table of Contents and see something that piques your interest more so than some of the other headings, I politely ask that you start at the beginning and do not skip around. The beginning is the first post. (By date.)
Each letter builds on a previous letter and jumping ahead without the prior knowledge may lead to a dangerously erroneous assumption.
Also, if you do not know a word… Get a thesaurus. Ignorant is not a good way to go through life.
Finally, if you learned something that will help you… Consider donating one dollar to my literary efforts so I may be able to concentrate on the endeavor of assisting and empowering women across the globe instead of punching a 9-5 clock. Patreon.com/colechange
I would also ask that if you learned something you did not know… Please share the Letters to Jamison with at least two friends. You never know… Something in here might help save their life or make their life a better one. C. Change