Letter #3 Part 9

Caveat for toys… START SMALL!!!!!

Use glass not plastic! (Glass or other natural materials… stone, wood, metal… create better orgasms than Synthetics.)

Only use battery operated toys with a partner.

When you are solo… you need to teach your body how to operate itself… a bunch of vibration is not going to help.

Liberator (a sex toy company from which I do not receive financial compensation) makes great glass toys. They also sell wedges. (I will keep that in sex toys.) While their glass toys are second to none, I returned all the other items I ever ordered from them because the plasticizers in the synthetic fabrics gave me rashes.

I am a big fan of solid objects. Solid objects don’t bend so be careful and slow.

A female vagina is curved. A glass dildo is not.

Puncturing yourself is not an optimal strategy for enjoyment.

Solid objects will force you to gain muscle strength… this is a good thing.

After you have mastered holding your pee, in ten second intervals at will, use that same exercise with your finger inserted.

Use the finger to push against different directions inside you. Continue doing the kegel exercises while your index finger points north, then south, to the east and finally west.

If your internal muscles are strong enough when clenched to move your finger to center and hold it in place, completely compressed by the vaginal walls… then… you can move up to toys.

Until you develop the muscle strength to pull your own index finger in and push it out… Without the use of your hands… Go at a speed no faster than your heartbeat and a thrust strength no greater than two fingers’ strength.

The goal here is to teach your internal muscles to work for you.

If the hole only opens to accept something else that does the work… then just forget about achieving the almighty orgasm.

I will write you a separate series of letters explaining what exercises to do and how to pick a training toy for each of the g spots and types of orgasms you might want to learn how to create to teach your muscles how to achieve greatness.

Stick with a finger for now… you have lots of crawling to do before walking, running or doing flip-flops or cartwheels.

Love you,
C. Change

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Letter #3 Part 4

About lubes…

Since I’m here on the subject… Use ORGANIC olive oil or coconut oil. If you can’t eat it or it is made of a synthetic… Do NOT allow it inside of you!!!

No KY lube, crisco, canola oil, petroleum based lubes, vaseline nor water based sex toy lubes.

These are not going to mesh well with your vagina.

In some cases they will cause you yeast infections or urinary tract infections.

Sex unbalances the pH and flora of the vagina.

Lubes, other than what your body produces, get things out of balance much faster.

Canola (rape seed) oil is industrial engine de-greaser.

Just because it is sold in grocery stores does not make it safe for sex.

You only need a dime sized amount of organic coconut or olive oil for hours of sexual intercourse. I am highly sensitive and these two things are the best I ever used. (I’ve tried everything.)

I will cover “food sex” later… It is its own Bible.

I don’t really care what the medical community has “sold” to people about needing additional lubrication. It’s junk. It’s a business… a hugely profitable business.

Our ancestors knew that an unused vagina or an unused penis would lose elasticity. It would have a dysfunction.

Historically, the solution was to continue to use the muscles.

Orgasm was the prescription for most preventable emotional issues. No joke.

But something changed.

What is more profitable as a cure for a lonely housewife in the 1950s… Valium coupled with alcoholism and doctor visits or great sexy time in the privacy of the ubiquitous American dream home???

So what if you went through menopause and your hormones changed. Your body, when relaxed, will lubricate itself until death.

Ask a 90 year old. After they finish laughing, if they can remember what the question was, they will probably tell you everything down there still works.

In fact, having sex with yourself or a partner or partners on a regular basis has been scientifically proven to have beneficial health properties.

Orgasms release/relieve stress, release chemicals which lubricate joints, release chemicals in the brain which help it operate better and a host of benefits including cramp reduction during periods and reducing migraines.

Maybe we could quit killing marine life to make arthritis and join pain reliever and start having better sex instead? I think the fish would appreciate it and so will your partner.

I don’t know about you but I’d rather have an orgasm with 100% effective results than a bunch of expensive pills with questionable results made from animal parts that couldn’t be part of dinner.

One published study showed migraine headaches are a result of not having enough sexual release.

Speaking as someone who has only had the onset of two migraine headaches in my life… both happened when I was separate from my partner for more than a week. I immediately found a solution attached to the palm of my hand.

Prior to the 1900s one didn’t have a headache to get out of having sex, they had sex to get rid of the headache. (Our culture is so screwed up.)

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Letter #3 Part 5
All sex organs are muscles.


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Letter#3 Medical terminology

Letter #3 Medical terminology…

Go to web md or a similar doctor site and read / look at the pictures of your body’s anatomical structure.

It won’t show you a g-spot, m-spot, s-spot or other fun box spot. (Probably because the experts can’t agree on most of this. Later in this letter I will explain in glorious detail why, too.)

Viewing the medical anatomy color images will give you the location terminology for a bartholin’s gland, skene’s gland and the other openings that exude fluid between your legs.

There are four separate places where fluid can come out between the thighs of a female… not just two!

When you were a child, as all children do, you explored your body. As a young child, I would assume… Like most kids… You were told not to continue playing with your private parts.

Now that they are developing into their adult forms… Its time to get to know you!

The female body…
Decide what you want your little love box to look like. Do things that help keep that shape. Being a tight-hole snob, I have a few ideas I will share with you…

Look at some xxx porn sites specifically to see what other vaginas look like with time and use. Some are pretty scary. Some look like they could take flight. Some look like objects could get lost in there.

The hole should always close after the object used is withdrawn. If it does not… then that means someone has not been doing their kegel exercises.

I love digging around on WebMD and reading medical journals to see what the professionals are talking about and telling their patients but holy cow… Could these writers be more vague or flat misleading when it comes to things that could greatly benefit sexual experience without buying proprietary drugs? Probably not… that is how they make their money.

To learn how to do proper kegel exercises to learn how to control an orgasm… whether you are a man or woman… the simplest method is to use your internal muscles to stop the flow of urine when taking a piss.

Nobody can show you this so start by just pinching down and stopping the flow of fluid when you pee.

Your body knows how to do this subconsciously. You need to bring that subconscious action to the conscious part of your mind so you can use that talent at will.

Next step… achieve the command ability to stop the wizz and hold your muscles taught for three seconds, release the flow for three seconds, stop the flow for three seconds and continue doing that as a regular practice until your entire bladder is evacuated.

That process uses your internal muscles.

The paragraph above is how it was explained to me and how I learned to isolate the internal muscles and start strengthening them.

Kegel exercises, where you can hold for ten second intervals, strengthen the muscles that hold the vaginal hole as well as the urethra closed.

It should not matter what size object is going in and out of your vagina… the hole should always close after use.

A loose pussy is one that is desensitized. That means… you don’t feel much. You will not orgasm properly this way.

Kegel muscles will help you squirt but those muscles that can be trained for orgasmic fluid loss require different exercises that I will get to at a more appropriate time.

Learn to crawl before you try to run.

Start with holding and releasing your pee stream.

Incidentally, some gmo foods… like Oreos, which I used to eat by the ton, have something in them these days which negatively impact the brain’s ability to control bladder function and use of the kegel exercise muscles.

Since I love my orgasms and ability to not piss myself in public… I quit eating Oreo cookies. Problem was solved.

Then I got the bright idea to cut out all fast food… Mickey D’s, booger king, taco ding dong and the like. Wow! What a difference it made. I have enjoyed the totally noticeable results.

Next item…
Don’t pull on your outer labia as they will elongate. Push to keep things small… Don’t pull. You will get the same tingly feeling with a pushing rub that you do with pulling but the long term visual will be different.

Let’s say I’m too late in giving you this information and you have been tugging on your labia since birth.

Don’t consider having your labia reduced as this is where the nerve endings exist that make sex really fun.

I just told you how to make the hole tighter and the stretched labia can be taught to tighten down on whatever phallic object you consider for appropriate use.

Medically cutting the nerves off is counter productive.

When porn star Houston developed bat wings and decided to have this procedure to remove the flappy skin done; she was quite proud of the event and subsequent public sale of her divided parts.

This act let me know that she never had a real orgasm, even when she fucked 500 men in a row.

How sad to be considered an expert at sex then prove to the entire world that your enjoyment was faked by gleefully cutting off that which serves the female orgasm!

Geez, I’m living proof one can have obnoxious amounts of sex and never have a stretched out saggy pussy. I guess tight pussy is about technique and exercises.

Even though female mutilation is a standard practice in some cultures, even a butchered vagina can produce some amazing orgasms.

Why… because women are lucky enough to have multiple ways to orgasm.

Some say their erogenous zone is the clitoris while others the labia. Some think it is only internal and others say it is in the mind.

Only ignorant fools will say female gushing orgasms are not possible… maybe they are just envious or possibly just not nearly as educated as they would like you to believe.

I’m gonna vote for physical, emotional and spiritual as a balanced combination to achieve the monumental fluid loss with commensurate shaking and brain melt that produces what I know is possible.

To explain how far away from normally accepted practices this really is… a long, long time ago… I sent one of the most famous “sexperts” a video showing hours of footage with more than one hundred orgasms… all done in one session; expecting him, of all people, to “get it.” Guess what… he thought it was fake.

I don’t know how to make a fake video of a camera up inside a vaginal canal showing growth of a g-spot or fluid loss from vaginal walls during a gushing orgasm. I only know how to show the real truth.

There are probably a couple thousand people who have witnessed this as a live audience members and can attest, along with the physical participants to the validity of what is possible.

Just because the people in your world haven’t done it or don’t think it is possible… just means they haven’t cultivated the talent to operate themselves to their full potential.

Vaginas can take a lot of “punishment.” They stretch to reproduce. They get pounded for fun. I even believe that when Adam and Eve were in the Garden, this was intended as a source of pleasures, not pains.

Biblically speaking, one the big punishments from God was that child birth would be painful as a result of disobedience. Reading between the lines, I believe with good reason, that this reference meant the female vagina was created for much greater enjoyment than what modern society would have us believe. Punishments are generally designed to take away something of great value to change a behavior.

I found an interesting correlation between humans and animals… As our food choices have changed… Organic to GMO… Female sexual organs have evolved in much the same way… And roughly in line… With the animals we eat.

The clitoris has moved from close to the vaginal opening (ladies of the 1970s) to higher up the labia and separate (ladies of the mid 2000s) as if clitoral stimulation is a separate function from intercourse.

At one time the gall bladder served a function. We don’t eat grass anymore so the gall bladder is pretty useless these days.

Evolving is what life on Earth does. Lets evolve to exercises for one of my favorite body parts…

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Letter #2 Part 8

Letter #2 Part 8
Who NOT to pick…

I took the stance that it was acceptable to test the waters and have sex with people that I was interested in… but I changed the terms.

I decided the pool of available candidates should be culled from what was available to only what I found intriguing.

As a standard on my basic rules/hard limit list that has definitely kept me off the basic bitch list, I refused to have sex with men that I knew were married. Make this rule one of your core ground rules. It is a red line for me.

Why… For what it’s worth… I believe in love and marriage. I never want to be second best, The other woman, that thing on the side, where you go when you are not happy at home, alone during the holidays because he is with his family… you get the point.

Second fiddle is not cool and not where I ever want to be.

Be in relationships with healthy people who do not make you swim in their sewer.

Also… you may not believe in karma… but I have seen enough to know it is real. I would never want to be the one who had their soul mate stolen….

Which leads me to a whole “Ashley Madison” category… adults often act like children and when their children see their parent act this way… the kids think this behavior is acceptable.

If you are cheating… the person you share your roof with is NOT your soul mate.

The definition of a soul mate is one who completes you. You searching elsewhere to get “needs/wants fulfilled” is the antithesis of a complete relationship. Stop being weak.

To the parents… if you are not happy… get a divorce!

Get in healthy relationships. Show yourself and your kids what a healthy relationship is!

Staying together for money… a reason I have heard so many times it is ridiculously pathetic… just shows how miserable and shallow the two of you really are.

Not only would I hate to be your kid, being given those kinds of value systems, but whenever I met someone I liked who was married and willing to cheat… I knew for sure they would cheat on me sooner or later.

Why get in a relationship with that as what you see at the end of the tunnel? I’m worth more than that and Jamison… you are worth more than what a cheater has to offer, also.

I had a coach who once told me, “Second best is just first place for losers.”

That statement was not only appropriate for sports, it is apropos when it comes to great sex and relationships.

I never met that magical Disney Prince in the real world, so I learned how to make myself fabulous.

In an effort to help you avoid quick, boring or painful experiences while testing the sexual waters, avoid the mistakes that I made and learn how to click your own mouse.

Finding excitement on the road less travelled would put me on a path down a very deep and dark rabbit hole which I will talk about in a later letter.

But for now, just know the person responsible for your orgasm is you.

Let’s get to figuring out how to make yourself happy. You were born with body parts that you should know how to use.

I don’t think the learning your own body is a sin or dirty or any negative thing.

In fact, there are Zero references in the Bible saying masturbating is a sin.

The church made that up!!! Just like it made up indulgences… Making a payment to get into heaven.

There is no reference to mastubation as a sin in my Bible or Koran…both of which I have read cover to cover more than once. (Just for kicks… In the letters to the church at Corinth… It says there is only one winner in the race.)

(No matter how many times a lie is repeated… repeating a lie does not make it true!)

You learned how to use your ears to hear, your mouth to speak, your eyes to see, your feet to walk, your hands with which to grab.

Why not learn how to use all of you. I will support you in this decision from afar, if you want to find out what your Creator gave you as a gift… one that was meant to be used often and correctly.

Love you,
C. Change


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Letter #2 Part 7

Letter #2 Part 7

There are male and female condoms.

I’m not sure if anyone has explained this yet… but, those little swimmers… male sperm… they can stay alive and swim around inside you for up to three days after sex.

The sperm dying inside you can make your pussy stink. (Not really “can”… it DOES!)

Congratulations! Someone left their genetic material inside you… it’s checking out your cracks and crevices and dying in there.

Your body has to figure out… do I absorb this or do I get rid of it?

Yep… it’s disgusting.

Usually, the pH of the guy’s ejaculate is different than what normally lives inside your love box.

If he spooged up your butt and there is even the slightest tear… The swimmers are programmed to explore the “unknown” and tear into soft tissue.

How do you think sperm fertilize an egg… Chews a hole in the egg wall to climb inside.

Yep… Super disgusting when you really think about it.

When his stuff doesn’t mesh with your junk… you will wish you didn’t know the miserable possibilities.

The dead swimmers can contribute to a host of problems… one of them being an abnormal pap smear.

Wanna guess how I know this… personal experience.

When I quit allowing cum on me or in me… almost all my problems that required a doctor visit… pretty much went away.

Why oh why didn’t someone tell me this in the beginning.

I was told “use a condom so you don’t get pregnant.”

Let’s be more honest… today one can go get a morning after pill so the pregnancy thing should be moot.

You use a condom so you don’t get your love box stinky and sick!

Get used to the concept of using a female condom. They are super cool.

I’m just brushing the surface here… for now… use condoms until both you and your partner have learned to control both of your orgasms.

For the male… he needs to spit all his junk on a towel or his t-shirt. I don’t care if he says, “It feels better to cum inside you.”

This is a statement you will hear.

Roll your eyes and tell them to screw off… and across something else that is not ON you or IN you.

Preferably in a place you do not have to clean up. Feel free to tell him to lick his drippings off your shoe if he can’t aim at something he can take with him.

When you learn how to control your orgasms… because you followed the instructions I will give you in these letters, you should be able to fluid orgasm from the vaginal walls enough to flush out anything that has gotten inside of you.

It is the best way to get clean on the inside. Besides, a good female orgasm releases a lot more fluid than the average douche container can hold.

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Letter #2 Sex For Starters

Letter #2 Part 1

I briefly touched on teenage sex in my last letter to you.
I would like to expand on that here.

But first, a little bit of terminology… a boundary is also called: red line, hard limit, edge.

A boundary is like a road. There is the driving lane (open), the shoulder (ok to use), the curb (red line or edge), the grass beside the curb opposite the road (hard limit). Hard limits are when people have crossed the red line and have entered the “no go” zone.

Do not allow anyone to cross a boundary you verbally give them prior to engaging in any type of sexual activity.

You do not engage in sexual activity until you have expressed your boundaries FIRST!!!

For instance… “Don’t hit me!”
If they get close to a hard limit… give them a kind verbal warning.
“Not even a play spanking. It does not turn me on.”

If they continue to encroach on an explicitly stated boundary… (a second time), immediately stop what you are doing and lose their number. (THIS IS ACTUALLY EASIER THAN YOU THINK.)

Anyone who crosses a red line is not someone you want in your life.

If someone gets to a hard limit… they are way over the line. This is unacceptable.

Everybody has different boundaries. Be sure they understand yours and you understand theirs before a misunderstanding occurs.

Oftentimes, people do things to their partner that they want done to them.

Over the years, I noticed that people with poor communication skills use physical touch to convey what they are thinking and secretly wish to say but can’t find their voice.

Do people still ask if they can kiss you before they try? Or do they just lean in and expect you to reciprocate?

Going back to my “don’t hit me” example… If your partner slaps your ass… and you already told him you don’t like it… this is their way of asking you to give them a good smack that leaves a red hand print.

In this situation… plant a paw on the side of the butt cheek with enough force to hear that smack half a mile away.

When the sting on their skin connects with their brain… make eye contact and politely say, “I have no problem giving you love taps… where would you like me to place the next one?”

Wait for an answer.

Then follow that up with, “I’m glad this turns you on but hit me again and I will: have you thrown in jail/ break your nose/ never talk to you again…” or whatever you feel is appropriate to get the point across… but do Not make an empty threat!

Boundaries require you to act upon corrective action immediately!

… And the point of a boundary is that you want to please your partner and you want them to please you.

You will have different “wants” because that is just how it is.

Using the ass smack example above, I have found that when the partner realizes they are going to get what they want (a red ass), they will respect your wishes.

This also opens a new line of communication… and makes future requests easier.

I will talk more about communication in a later letter. I just wanted to cover the concept of boundaries here, now.

Continued… Letter #2 Part 2

Quantity vs. Quality

As a teenager, the world is full of new surprises. In your twenties, you think you know everything… well, not everything – but you are the Master of Your Universe… until you learn something new.

Think of life as a pie. 10% you know you know (how to work your iphone). 10% you know you don’t know (quantum physics equations). The other 80%… that is the learning curve.

The pie is not a static size. As you learn and grow – that pie gets bigger and bigger.

For instance, the first Apple computer had 12k of memory. If that was all there was to the “computer” pie… your iPhone would weigh 20 pounds, be plugged into a wall, require dial-up to connect and operate using 12k of memory with a green screen.

My point is – no matter what you learn about sex as a teenager – or in your twenties or in your thirties – or god forbid in your 50s… cause while people my age may seem older than dirt to you – the only real difference between me at 14 and me now is: bigger tits, lots more experience, wrinkles, my own roof and rules… Great sex is one of those practice areas where I still participate in continuing education all the time. I learn new things that make the original building blocks more useful.

As such, I am going to throw a whole bunch of things at you that are not on your radar or a whole lot of other people’s radar.

This is not to say that I think all of these things should be something you should endeavor to excel at next week. Quite the contrary!

When I say things like… know about this… but keep it for later… I am speaking from experience. Experience that I wish someone would have told me about so that I would not have had to fumble through figuring it out for myself.

Before you learned to ride a tricycle you probably saw a bicycle and knew what a car was. You were not ignorant of a bicycle or car as something other people knew how to operate. Before you learned to ride that first tricycle… you kinda had a sneaking suspicion riding a bicycle without training wheels and driving a car were things you would learn how to operate later in life. As a tricycle trainee, you knew you didn’t have the skills to peddle two wheels or parallel park until after you learned to master the three wheeled mechanism designed to accommodate your small frame.

Sex is a lot like that. As a teenager… you are at the Little Tikes Big Wheel stage. You may know what a Ferrari is… but you can’t drive one well, yet. Putting any teenager in a Ferrari is tantamount to handing them the keys to an expensive, fantastical, spectacular crash that will probably land them in a hospital.

When the best “teen sex advice” is… talk to your partner, use a condom because we know you are going to experiment and here is the number to call when you think you are pregnant or you have a disease… without telling them the things in these letters first… it is tantamount to knowingly handing a teenager the keys to a Ferrari with the 100% expectation that they will crash and burn.

Not only is that just plain mean… you don’t get to go back to the dealership and get another brand – spanking new Ferrari. This is your body. The only one you get. If you crash it on your first test drive, you are stuck with mangled and bent metal, scratches and dents, needing a new paint job… for the rest of your life.

Wouldn’t it be a lot nicer to drive around in a mint condition cherry Ferrari than be sitting on a twisted hunk of metal that is dragged down the street by a rope attached to a donkey?

You are going to travel through life… let me tell you how do it in style…

I will put things on your radar that are for “way far in the future”… because… well… if you have an idea about what is around the next bend… you might keep going down the road at a safe pace and speed that you can handle with confidence.

I would hate for you to stop short of great things just because you were kept in the dark and did not know what is possible… when you are ready for them.

People that think drunk sex or ten whole minutes of sex is the way to go… really fell short of the starting gate in my opinion.

All too often I trusted people I shouldn’t have because I did not know they were selling snake oil. They just had a smoother presentation which I was gullible enough to believe.

The first time someone tried to tie me up… I ran.
The second time… I was not a happy camper.
Looking at me now… you would think I took to it like a duck to water – but that would be a huge erroneous assumption. It took years for me to be in a safe relationship where I was willing to release my control freak attitude and even feign or entertain the thought of relaxing in power with a rope as my tether.

So, I am hoping you enjoy the letters.

I was having a conversation with my mom the other day. Two items hit home from that conversation that I want to make sure I clarify properly. Right here and right now.

It became apparent she is worried you might take the kiss a lot of frogs to find a prince routine… like I did. First of all… this does not work.

Until your knowledge base concerning your boundaries, what does and does not turn you on and your ability to comfortably articulate those things is strongly established… kissing frogs will only result in Proverbial Warts.

While I did make stupid mistakes like having lots of partners, it stemmed from a statistical concept of “sooner or later I will hit the jackpot” instead of realizing the “jackpot” was inside me and not in someone else. But I didn’t know that then.

When I did find a suitable partner… I ran that for all it was worth until that growth experience was complete.

It also dawned on me that nobody really likes the image of their parents having sex in real life or in their imagination.

I like visual presentation (like a guy – beautiful things turn me on). While my parents consider their sex life a beautiful thing, my vision of them bumping uglies is a stomach turning event fraught with vomiting consequences.

I have a very hard time staying sexually focused when I see or imagine something that requires me to go stare directly into the sun in order to burn the image from my eyes and brain stem.

Listening to a parent explain sex can be daunting at best and uncomfortable in a heartbeat. But here is where it gets a little weird…

Most people grow up to be like their parents.

If your grandaddy was a baker and your daddy was a baker there is a good chance you will be a baker, too. If you follow the family tradition, your kid will want to be a baker, also.

It doesn’t matter if your dad’s name is John Baker, Vito Corleone, Julius Caesar or Billy Graham; children tend to follow in their parents footsteps.

Do you really think that your personal predilections (specifically, your take on sex) is going to be that different from your parents’?

The great fear in everyone’s mind is that you will choose my black sheep path instead of their easier path. The letters are designed to give you the best of both worlds without going down the bumpy road I took.

In The World you grew up in – I hope you stay true to your normal roots.

If you don’t want to know more – you can wear blinders. It does not hurt to wear blinders. It hurts when you realize you missed out.

Your parents and I could not be on more opposing sides of the see-saw when it comes to sexual behavior. If you want to know nothing more than, “Don’t have sex until you are married and you two virgins will figure it out and live happily ever after.” Then I am fine with that and I think they are, too.

I don’t really care if you have sex every day for the rest of your life or if you only do it one time to make a baby or never have sex. Quantity is not my concern. Quality is a Huuuuge big-O deal! (Incidentally, your parents and I agree on this point.)

I know lots of people who have quantity notches in their bedposts. They do not have quality notches. Doing something often, poorly is sort of a waste of time in my book.

I don’t think anybody walks around proud of a bad haircut – why walk around touting your ability to have lots of mediocre sex? …but movies and tv do it… over and over again. Subliminally glorifying less than 3 minute magic where he was actually wondering if it was “in” and she didn’t break a sweat or a smile.

You most certainly do not have to do any of the things I will talk about – that I have done. But I would be remiss if I did not tell you what I learned about operating the female body.

Great female orgasms can leave a puddle of fluid on the floor. This puddle comes from the vaginal walls. Your orgasm won’t be that good in the beginning… trust me on this… your first one hundred orgasms are like those days learning to ride the big wheel. Best thing you’ve ever done so far but the more you know the better it gets.

I know what my life was like before I knew this and I know what my life has been like since gaining this knowledge.

God, I WISH somebody would have told me about gushing fluid orgasms! I had no idea these are what I should have been expecting. I would have done so many things differently.

To this day, every man or woman I have had sex with, I have had to teach how to operate my box.

Nobody, nobody, nobody knew how to make me squirt without me first communicating how and where to poke, prod, push, pull, etc. First!

People taught me their tricks. But if I had known at 12 years old that the great sexual experience starts with me knowing how to operate me… not someone else teaching me about me… the quality of the sexually charged experiences I did have, would have been GREATLY elevated.

I should have paid more attention to that AC/DC song with the lyrics “the walls start shakin’… the earth was quakin’… you shook me all night long”… because while I thought they were singing about his orgasm… in reality, they were covertly telling the world a female orgasm ROCKS!!!! …the BIG clue… men don’t have “walls”… women do.

If you are sent away to a convent in order to avoid these letters (which you probably will be if you dare to whisper the word “masturbation” in front of iPhone Grandma) and never have sex with another human being – I did my best to send properly detailed instructions for you to operate your body in a manner consistent with spiritual gnosis that makes your life here on Earth a better place to be.

I will talk a lot about partner sex because being truly in love with someone in a monogamous relationship is heaven on earth… but you should know… I am the best I ever had. To be good/great/mind-blowing with someone else… you have to be your own best friend first.
Love you,
C. Change


Thank you for sharing. I would like to send you a gift, too.